Cam and I moved… Again!
This time we left our little chunk of paradise in the Bay for a slower, more mountainous way of life in Boise, Idaho.
Cam and I have for years sought to really put down roots in the Bay Area. We’d imagined settling there for good, buying a house, starting a family, raising our kids and dogs among the redwoods. We love California for a couple of reasons: the insane and diverse natural beauty, the environmental / social activist culture, and, most of all, our dear group of friends who’ve become our family over time.
And yet, something was always missing.
Life is complicated, until it’s simple.
The truth about a new minimalist lifestyle is that when you deal with and consider and think through your stuff, you can’t help but gain clarity in other areas of your life. In the past year it became completely clear that Cam and I were ready for the next phase in our life.
We wanted to be somewhere slower, somewhere affordable, somewhere with great and expansive natural beauty and — in a dream world — be close to family.
Our Idaho roots
I’ve been visiting Idaho for as long as Cam and I have been together. His father was raised in Boise and almost his entire extended family remained there. We went hiking in the Sawtooth Mountains, skiing at Bogus Basin, snowshoeing in McCall. When Cam’s parents decided to return to Boise after raising him in New Jersey, we were intrigued.
Boise, while we loved the place, hadn't been on our short list of possible, more affordable locations we would trade in the Bay for. Our Idaho trips over the past year showed us a new way of life that was open to us: a slower, more affordable pace of life balanced with a vibrant downtown, a line-free regional airport within biking distance and the eternally enthusiastic presence of college students at nearby Boise State.
Once we opened our hearts to the possibility of life in Idaho, the stars aligned in ways we couldn't have imagined.
We found a home that we love with a sweeping backyard, tumbling down to a creek with our very own water wheel. We adopted the sweetest, most precious and adventurous dog in the world.
We walk along the river, have dinners with family, never worry about traffic, bike anywhere in the city we need to go, and spend about 40% less on our mortgage than we did on our SF rent. We have a whole new sector of this beautiful country to explore and come to know. We have a small but amazing group of friends who have taken us rafting and hiking and taught me to fly fish (which, by the way, is every bit as romantic and beautiful and meditative experience as the movies make it out to be).
Ohana is everything.
My older sister recently surprised me by flying to Boise for my birthday. If that wasn't a gift enough, she gave me a shirt with the perfect saying on it: "Ohana is Everything." Ohana, Hawaiian for family.
While Cam’s family is without a doubt my family now as well, it was hard to settle away from my folks and siblings.
Which is why Cam and I agreed that as often I needed/wanted/desired to visit family, I would. I’m on the plane to Chicago right now to help my folks move. I’ll be back in November and for Christmas (with sweet Bodhi in tow). Part of living in Idaho meant that we would have real space for all of my family to visit whenever and for as long as they desire. I knew anywhere we ended up long-term (if it wasn’t in my parent’s basement, as I think my dad would have loved) I needed my family to feel totally comfortable and at home in my home. I wanted a real guest room and a real bathroom and an experience of ease the would lure them to the Treasure Valley and keep them here for a long while.
I look forward to sharing with you guys a new way of looking at and living the NM lifestyle, from a much less urban city in a stand alone home, which we own, in the mountain west. While I’ve always been so proud of my Chicago roots (go Cubs go!), it feels brand new to be an adult not living on the Pacific Coast and all that stands for. My hope is that these new learnings and adjustments will connect us with and serve a broader range of people seeking out a simple, easy, inspired life!